I have a date with a very nice guy tonight...
Why is it that all I want to do is lay on my bed, think about my ex, cry and listen to After the Love is Gone - by Brian McNight?
p.s. This is a fan made video, but I like it.
Have a good weekend y'all,
Peace
9 comments:
Ohhh. Girl, I'm in the SAME PLACE!! I just Spice last night that not a day has gone in nearly three months that I haven't thought about my ex...even though I broke up with him! I did it because the relationship was unhealthy and getting unhealthier by the minute! But, I still care so much about him... *sigh*
Anyway, try to continue to get over him and you never know, maybe the new guy will get those juices flowing just right soon enough and you'll be like, "Ex who?"!
A'ight...I hope you snapped out of it! I KNOW you know that don't nothin help you get over old d*ick better than getting some new d*ck!LOL
So did you go on the date? What happened? Did you have a good time? Did you get you some?
DETAILS DANG IT!!! I WANT DETAILS!!!
Awww...I haven't been there in awhile, but I remember what it was like to be there. Gotta try to move on. In the words of the TLC "erase, replace, embrace new face".
@ Sugar,
Why do these negros still have that type of hold over us? It's starting to drive me a little crazy! And, yes i'm in just about the same boat as you, in that I ended things. I can't even seem to tolerate anyone long enouogh for them to get my juices flowin'! *le'sigh*
@ Kiki,
I'm not even gonna lie, i'm still kinda depressed. I really do want to get over dude, and I know that a surefire way too do that would be with some new dick, but it's a scary world out there. He's the only guy i've been with since 'round 2001. I was abstinent for a year before I even met him in late '02. Arghghghhhh! Oh, and I'll tell you about the date in the next post.
@ Miz jj,
I'm trying with all of my might, but for some reason, as time goes on I find myself forgetting the bad stuff, and just remembering the good stuff. I have a twisted mind. lol!
I don't know, but let me tell you. On my 8 hour drive to South Carolina this past weekend, I was able to think my way out of a lot of that mess. And, I'm so thankful for it! I know what you mean about forgetting the bad stuff!!! That's what I had to remind myself of during the drive and I was able to realign my thoughts. You need some quiet time to think and meditate through this. I was starting to go crazy too.
Also, is one of your girls in a similar situation? Be mindful of that shit because it will rub off!! One of mine had started back up with this piece of shit she had been seeing and I know that in my subconscious I decided that it "might not be so bad". Tuh! I feel much better now. I hope you do too!
Girl, go on Priceline.com and get yourself a room for about $50 [name your own price] for one night, turn your cell phone off, order yourself some takeout and just battle it out with yourself.
Don't you do it!!!!
We need an update...
Hope the feelin' has looooonnnnngggg warn off...
I've been lurkin' ova here waiting for an update for weeks....
What gives Nic...Why come you leavin' us hangin'?!?!?!
Because ex's have that uncontrollable hold on your that you just cant explain. Dont you just hate that. It took me years, to really get over my ex. And I still am not really over him, but I have been able to have a productive relationship after him so I say that I am.
True love never dies!
heyo
it took me a few weeks, but I finally responded to your tag. I guess we're both pretty busy with life to bother too much with our blogs -although you have an actual excuse because you seem to have an actual life. hehe.
anyhaps, hope everythings going good for you.
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